I got my flu shot at the doctor’s office last week, and while I was there I saw a quote on the wall that read:
Quality is not an act, it is a habit. ~Aristotle
This simple statement struck a chord with me, and as I sat waiting for the nurse, I reflected on the idea of a “quality life.”
What does “quality of life” even mean?
What does “quality of life” mean to me, specifically?
How can we improve our quality of life?
While driving home after my appointment, these questions continued circling around in my mind and eventually, I settled upon a definition.
To me, quality of life is the sum of one’s happiness, energy, well-being, and health. And while our definitions of what constitutes “quality” might differ, there are certain overarching behaviors that can positively improve virtually everyone’s lives.
The PERMA Theory
Within the past 20 years or so, there’s been a movement toward the practice of “Positive Psychology” with the PERMA theory. Introduced by Dr. Martin Seligman, the PERMA theory examines five elements that make up a high quality of life. These areas include positive emotion, engagement, relationships, meaning, and achievement.
Positive Emotion:
According to Dr. Seligman, we can increase our positive emotion by cultivating gratitude and forgiveness for past events, focusing on the present while practicing mindfulness, and feeling hope and excitement for the future.
Engagement:
Engagement means fully absorbing yourself in the present. You get into a “flow” state, where you use your skills, strengths, and mental focus, to work on a challenging task.
As Seligman explains, “in such an activity, concentration is fully absorbed in the moment, self-awareness disappears, and the perception of time is distorted in retrospect, e.g., time stops.” You can practice full engagement with a wide range of activities, from reading a book, to doing a challenging workout, to having a thoughtful conversation, to playing an instrument, etc.
Relationships
Relationships foster a feeling of connection and belonging. As social beings, we thrive on making connections with other people. What’s more, all of the experiences that contribute to a high quality of life, whether that’s laughter, a feeling of accomplishment, excitement, etc. are further enhanced with healthy relationships.
Meaning
Filling your days with purpose is key to having a high quality of life. Experiencing this sense of meaning often stems from belonging to something that is bigger than ourselves. As Dr. Seligman notes, there are many different institutions that help foster this feeling of meaning, “such as religion, family, science, politics, work organizations, justice, the community, social causes (e.g., being green), among others.”
Achievement
Achieving something almost always provides us with a sense of accomplishment. And this, too, contributes to a high quality of life.
By setting goals for yourself, whether in the workplace, personal hobbies, your relationships etc. you open the opportunity to experience achievement and fulfillment more often.
(Want to learn more about the PERMA theory? Be sure to check out Dr. Seligman’s work. I especially enjoyed Flourish.)
10 Simple Strategies to Improve Your Quality of Life
So, we understand that we must fill our lives with positive emotions, engagement, relationships, meaning, and achievement. But how can we do this? What activities should we pursue to increase our quality of life?
Here are my top 10 suggestions:
#10. Get Moving Every Day
Whether you spend time at the gym, you love swimming laps in the pool, or you aim for 10,000 steps a day, exercise is key for a high quality of life.
Studies have continually shown that regular activity improves not only your physical health but also your mental and emotional well-being. Regular exercise increases your circulation, improves your heart and brain health, strengthens your muscles, boosts your mood, and enhances your general outlook on life.
Start incorporating exercise in your daily routine and watch your quality of life improve.
(Need help sticking with your health and fitness goals? Check out my post here!)
#9. Daily Meditation
If you’re anything like me, you’ve practiced meditation once or twice, and then you dismissed it. Perhaps your mind wandered constantly, so you convinced yourself that you’re “bad” at meditation and that the practice isn’t for you.
I get it; I felt the same way for a long time.
After practicing meditation consistently for a few months now, however, I’m singing a different tune.
Here’s the deal: even a few minutes of meditation can play a major role in enhancing your quality of life. It encourages you to check in with yourself. It promotes mindfulness, and it helps you live in the moment.
I’ve been practicing morning meditation for about 5-10 minutes before work each day, and it’s remarkable the difference these few minutes of inward focus have made. What’s more, anyone can meditate, you can practice it anywhere, and it doesn’t require any fancy equipment. All you need is a quiet place to close your eyes.
How do you start? Just follow these simple steps:
BREATHING MEDITATION
- Sit comfortably on the floor or on a chair with your back straight.
- Breathe normally and focus all of your attention on your breath as it fills and exits your lungs.
- If your thoughts start to stray, gently them back to your breath as soon as you notice.
- Start with five to ten minutes and work your way up from there.
- That’s it. (See? I told you that you could do it!)
#8. Spend Time Outside
Enjoying the outdoors is another beneficial way to enhance your well-being and quality of life. Spending time in the sunshine provides your body with the necessary Vitamin D it needs, while the fresh air helps lower your stress levels.
In fact, according to research by the Harvard Medical School, spending time outdoors promotes a more active lifestyle, elevates your mood, improves your concentration, and may even help those in pain heal quicker. I don’t know about you, but that sounds pretty good to me!
So grab your sneakers and go enjoy the fresh air.
#7. Keep learning
Although I finished my schooling, I still consider myself a perennial student. I love to learn, and I get a rush of excitement when exploring new ideas.
If you can relate, then I have exciting news for you; continuous learning is a great way to improve the quality of your life.
When you learn new things, you enhance your brain health by expanding and challenging your worldview. Additionally, by working on a new project or skillset, you’re moving closer to your personal goals, which provides that important feeling of accomplishment. Finally, exploring new opportunities is a great way to meet people and strengthen your relationships as well!
#6. Connect with Others
Feeling a connection with others through strong, healthy relationships improves your quality of life in countless ways. Healthy relationships can offer comfort and support whenever you need it, while simply conversing with others provides that valuable sense of connection and belonging to something greater than yourself. Spend some time each day enhancing your relationships, whether that’s through a phone call, a kind gesture, or a long-overdue coffee date, and watch your quality of life soar.
#5. Master your time management
As I mentioned a few weeks ago, I’ve come to see time as my most valuable commodity. It is the one thing I can never get back, and therefore, I strive to “spend” it as wisely as possible.
When we practice effective time management, we have an easier time kicking distraction and procrastination to the curb. What’s more, we often have an increase in productivity, a decrease in stress levels, and more time to focus on our big goals.
If you’re ready to master your time management skills, be sure to check out my top five time management strategies here.
#4. Practice Self-Care
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. You can’t pour from an empty glass.
It’s no secret that we are a busy bunch of humans. We play the role of partner, sibling, child, parent, friend, and employee to so many people. We give of ourselves constantly, and we rarely put our needs first.
But here’s the deal, when we don’t take care of ourselves, we move closer and closer to burnout. When that happens, we have a hard time controlling our emotions and focusing on the positive, and we lack the energy to live our best lives.
So, if you want to truly enhance the quality of your life, then it’s time to start practicing daily self-care (YES, Daily!).
If you’re not sure how to do this, or if you think there’s not enough time in the day, be sure to check out my post all about incorporating daily self-care into your life here.
#3. Take risks
I’ll be the first to admit that stepping out of your comfort zone can feel scary. The familiar is safe and secure; it doesn’t challenge our thoughts or push us in new or uncomfortable directions.
But guess what. The familiar doesn’t allow us to grow, either.
In order to experience your best quality of life, you need to leave the familiar behind. If you want to have new ideas, build confidence, work toward difficult goals, and experience incredible opportunities, you must be willing to take a few risks along the way.
So, every once in a while, challenge yourself to leave the familiar behind. Step out of your comfort zone into a new world of new possibility.
Challenge yourself to leave the familiar behind. Step out of your comfort zone into a new world of new possibility. #BestLife #DreamBig #LifeYourLife Click To Tweet#2. Get clear about your dreams
Taking time to know and understand what makes you happy is key to a high quality of life. By knowing this information about yourself, you’ll have an easier time identifying your goals, aligning your behaviors with your beliefs, and feeling satisfied with your life.
By getting clear on your dreams, you provide yourself with a sense of direction, which allows you to set goals and continue working toward your best life.
Need a little boost of motivation? Check out my post, why you should dream big and reach for your goals.
#1. Get inspired.
Inspiration is key when it comes to motivation and chasing your dreams. Spend some time seeking out that inspiration on a daily basis.
What gives you inspiration? What encourages action and motivates you to work toward your goals?
Surround yourself with this inspiration daily, and you’ll find your quality of life continually increasing.
Looking for a way to incorporate more inspiration in your life? Check out my post about how to create a vision board here!
Cultivate Good Habits
So, now we know why we should seek an optimal life, and we have the strategies to start working toward this objective, but how can we stick with our goals?
The secret lies in cultivating good habits.
As the Aristotle reminded us as the beginning of this post:
Quality is not an act, it is a habit.
For example, if getting enough exercise is a great way to increase your quality of life, but you only get to the gym once per month, you might not see the results you want. By making this practice a daily habit, however, you’ll start seeing that impact sooner.
So how do we maintain good habits? Great question!
One of the best ways to stick with your good habits is through repetition and accountability. And my favorite solution to fulfill both of these objectives comes in the form of a habit tracker.
By recording your habits and tracking them daily, you help boost your motivation, strengthen your resolve, and bring yourself closer to reaching your goals. What’s more, the more you practice, the stronger those habits become. Before you know it, they will be automatic behaviors, and you can move on to the next goal in your journey toward your living your best life.
Want to give habit tracking a try? Then be sure to download your free habit trackers here! You will get a 3 different weekly habit trackers to help you live your best life in no time. Let’s do this!
Question:
What activities or strategies lead to your best quality of life? Do you practice any of the 10 suggestions I listed? Do you ever track your habits? Let me know below!
Marta Rivera says
March 27, 2019 at 11:03 amI agree that it is very important to “get moving”. Getting outside to do so also helps.
Paula says
March 30, 2019 at 6:18 pmYes! I agree, Marta 🙂
Tatiana says
December 2, 2018 at 1:17 pmAwesome tips! I love that you referenced positive psychology and I am definitely going to look into Dr. Seligman’s books. I have fallen out of my habits of meditating and exercising recently and I definitely have noticed the effects in my mood. It’s always good to have a reminder to help with motivation!
Paula says
December 4, 2018 at 8:00 amI’m so glad to hear it resonated with you, Tatiana. Thank you!
Amanda says
December 1, 2018 at 5:10 pmSuch great ideas! I struggle to maintain stillness in meditation..but very much trying!
Paula says
December 4, 2018 at 8:01 amMe too, Amanda. I’m slowly learning that the struggle is all part of the process 🙂
Katie says
December 1, 2018 at 12:19 pmLove all of these tips! I definitely need to find more ways to learn new things and broaden my horizons
Paula says
December 4, 2018 at 8:02 amThanks, Katie!
Vicky says
December 1, 2018 at 11:13 amSo true about spending time outside. I work from home and sit at a desk most of the day so I am always trying to get out for a short walk a few times each day. It feels good to move and being in the sunshine just does wonders.
Paula says
December 4, 2018 at 8:04 amAgreed! It’s amazing how much of a difference those extra moments outside make, isn’t it?
Heather Gilbert says
November 30, 2018 at 5:23 pmThese are great and seem simple enough to incorporate into my everyday routine!
Paula says
December 1, 2018 at 9:51 amI’m so glad to hear it 🙂
GETYOURHOLIDAYON says
November 30, 2018 at 2:31 pmI love this Paula! Such awesome ideas and way to help increase your productivity! I will definitely be incorporating some of these useful tips. Thanks for sharing! 🙂
Paula says
December 1, 2018 at 9:52 amI’m so glad to hear it!
Vicky says
November 30, 2018 at 12:06 pmI agree with you about meditation. I don’t have a lot of time to do it usually, but even just a few minutes makes such a big difference in my attitude for the rest of the day. There are some really good podcasts out there with some short meditations if people are looking for a place to start.
Paula says
December 1, 2018 at 9:53 amGreat tip, Vicky! I LOVE podcasts, but I never thought about meditation podcasts. I’m definitely going to check that out. Thank you!
nwebb8 says
November 30, 2018 at 7:51 amI really enjoyed reading all of your tips to make your life better. I think that meditation and exercise has really help enhance my life and could help others.
Paula says
December 1, 2018 at 9:53 amThey make such a positive impact, don’t they?
Rachel says
November 29, 2018 at 11:55 amI am working on time management and getting active. I need to change something up.
Paula says
November 29, 2018 at 6:08 pmThat’s awesome, Rachel! Small steps make a big difference 🙂
Slay At Home Mother (@slayathomemothr) says
November 29, 2018 at 8:35 amAre you a mind reader?! LOL I totally needed to read this today 🙂
Paula says
November 29, 2018 at 6:11 pmI’m so glad to hear it!
Leigh Suznovich says
November 28, 2018 at 11:04 pmLove these tips, so inspiring to develop better habits! I do a lot of these things but really need to be more consistent with them and make them part of my daily routine.
Paula says
November 29, 2018 at 6:15 pmYou got this, Leigh!
Heather says
November 28, 2018 at 11:04 pmThese are great strategies to live by!
Paula says
November 29, 2018 at 6:15 pmThanks, Heather!
Andrea says
November 28, 2018 at 4:33 pmThese tips are super helpful! I felt relieved I’m applying most of them, except for the “get moving every day” since I had a medical procedure and doctors said I should do no exercise, not even walking….so I’m struggling with that one 🙈
Paula says
November 29, 2018 at 6:18 pmI’m glad you found them helpful!
Jazz says
November 28, 2018 at 2:02 pmThese are great tips! Thanks for rounding them up.
Paula says
November 29, 2018 at 6:18 pmAbsolutely!
TheSuperMomLife says
November 28, 2018 at 12:30 pmWhile I’d like to think that I’m living my best life, I know that there are areas that could use some working on. Things get so hectic, we tend to forget to live!
Paula says
November 29, 2018 at 6:20 pmIt’s so true, isn’t it?
jesusglitter says
November 27, 2018 at 8:47 pmI love the tweet about leaving the familiar behind. As hard as it is it the best thing we can do for ourselves.
Paula says
November 29, 2018 at 6:22 pmYes, I agree!
Ronni says
November 27, 2018 at 7:52 pmI love focus on the positivity and rewards that risks can give you. Great post!
Paula says
November 29, 2018 at 6:22 pmThanks, Ronni!
Jazz says
November 27, 2018 at 3:55 pmThis is so interesting! I’ve definitely seen the benefits of positive emotion, gratitude, and moving every day.
Paula says
November 29, 2018 at 6:25 pmThat’s fantastic!
Julie Hood says
November 27, 2018 at 2:41 pmSo much of this really resonates with me as a Christian–when I’m thankful for what God’s done and all the things he’s given me, there’s less space for negativity in my head! I love the reminders to stay positive!
Paula says
November 29, 2018 at 6:24 pmThanks, Julie! I’m so glad to hear it 🙂
Tami Qualls says
November 27, 2018 at 10:34 amWhile spending time outside is the last thing I want to do, I’ve witnessed a better day because of it. My son and I both seem more focused on our work and schooling after spending some time outside.
Paula says
November 29, 2018 at 6:25 pmIt makes such a positive difference, doesn’t it?
Tamara says
November 26, 2018 at 11:40 pmThis is something that has become important to me after the crazy year we’ve had. I need to make changes.
Paula says
November 29, 2018 at 6:27 pmI hope these tips help, Tamara!
jesusglitter says
November 26, 2018 at 9:50 pmThis post has so much great information. It was very timely for me as I grieve the loss of my sweet momma, but trying to come up for air and get some normalcy back into my life. I’m going to focus on a few of these tips and work up. One day at a time. Thank You for reminding me that self-care is important.
Paula says
November 29, 2018 at 6:27 pmI’m so sorry to hear about your loss. Yes, one day at a time is key, and self-care is crucial. Take care of yourself <3
Bella B says
November 24, 2018 at 11:31 pmthese are wonderful tips I workout everyday. So important.
Paula says
November 26, 2018 at 2:53 pmAgreed! Thanks, Bella.
Safi says
November 24, 2018 at 10:35 pmI absolutely love this!! I’ve been trying to work on a lot of things things lately. Thank you for sharing!
Paula says
November 26, 2018 at 2:54 pmAbsolutely! I’m so glad you enjoyed 🙂
Peachy A. says
November 24, 2018 at 4:19 pmI think what I lack is that daily self-care. Hopping on your otheer post now for some idea on how I can make it happen.
Paula says
November 26, 2018 at 2:54 pmIt makes such a big difference, let me know how it goes for you!
Aditi Wardhan Singh says
November 24, 2018 at 1:55 pmMoving everyday is something I do but not for myself. Life moves me.. Beign clear about my dreams is also a struggle since I’m so fluid in my desires and invested in everything I do. Do you have any advice for me ?
Paula says
November 26, 2018 at 2:57 pmIt’s great that you’re so driven by your passions! I would recommend creating a list of everything you want to accomplish in the week. Then, break down that to-do list into days. Each day, pick 2-3 main things that you MUST complete before you work on anything else; when picking these ideas, make sure they are the items that will move you forward toward your goals the most. Once you’ve completed those tasks, then you can tend to other “smaller” items on your t-do list. Continue with this every day, and I think you’ll be amazed at everything you accomplish 🙂
Clair says
November 23, 2018 at 12:44 pmLoved this post so much! I have been feeling like I am creeping into a slump, and can pinpoint reasons why after reading this!
Paula says
November 26, 2018 at 2:58 pmI am so glad to hear it, Clair. Thank you for letting me know; that makes my day 🙂
Amanda Martin says
November 23, 2018 at 11:33 amGreat list! I totally agree with spending time outside and moving your body! Two of my faves…..even better when you combine them!
Paula says
November 26, 2018 at 2:58 pmYes! 100% 🙌
Jackie M. says
November 23, 2018 at 10:17 amI totally need that breathing mediation strategy in my life!!
Paula says
November 26, 2018 at 2:58 pmGive it a try and let me know what you think!
marymakeup says
November 23, 2018 at 8:47 amWell I have to say that the only thing I miss these days is…meditation but I have pilates & aequilibrium class once a week.
Paula says
November 23, 2018 at 11:38 amIt’s so great that you’re fitting in your workouts! I’ve never heard of aequilibrium before…you KNOW I’m going to go google that now. 😂
marymakeup says
November 23, 2018 at 5:39 pmIt’s a sort of yoga…sure you will love it x
Paula says
November 26, 2018 at 2:57 pmAWESOME! I can’t wait to try it 🙂
Helen Claire Little says
November 23, 2018 at 3:11 amReally love this. Perma theory is new to me, but I can really appreciate how looking at gratitude and forgiveness can improve ones quality of life. Will be bookmarking this for sure!
Paula says
November 23, 2018 at 10:10 amThanks, Helen! I’m glad it resonated with you 🙂
Peachy A. says
November 22, 2018 at 8:25 amThese are all awesome tips but it’s just right to put exercise at the top. I’ve been neglecting my work out time in a month now and I think your post is a reminder to me.
Paula says
November 22, 2018 at 2:07 pmThank you! I’m so glad to hear it 🙂
Leslie says
November 21, 2018 at 5:51 pmI’m borrowing your 10 strategies. They are so on point and completely doable. Some strategies I’m good at, others (like getting outside) need work.
Paula says
November 22, 2018 at 2:08 pmDo it, Leslie! It’s amazing what a positive difference it makes 🙂
21flavorsofsplendor says
November 21, 2018 at 5:51 pmLove all these! Getting moving and getting outside are two things things that are so important to me.
Paula says
November 22, 2018 at 2:10 pmMe too 🙂 It makes such a positive difference, doesn’t it?