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It has been an incredibly long winter. (For those of you who haven’t had to wear your winter coat throughout April, consider yourself lucky, and take my word for it 😉 .)
When I woke up this morning, however, I was struck by a subtle change; I didn’t wake to the usual darkness that greets me throughout the winter months. Instead, I awoke for the first time this season to pale morning light shining through the skylights in my bedroom. Seeing as we haven’t had the usual warmth of spring reach us yet, it was this early morning light that finally signaled to me spring’s arrival.
As I mentioned in my post, 5 ways to hygge in the spring, I love this season. It is such a promise of hope and renewal. I love the bright green leaves, the colorful blooming flowers, the sounds of laughter outside, and the scent of the charcoal grill firing up on cool evenings. It’s as if everything and everyone starts emerging from hibernation ready to celebrate the warmer months.
As I laid in bed, greeted by the morning light, I experienced a sudden rush of gratitude for this long-awaited shift in season. Inspired, I grabbed my gratitude journal and took some time to reflect on these feelings before getting up for the day.
How to Start a Gratitude Journal
Over the last few months, I’ve been working hard on surrounding myself with positive thoughts, experiences, and people. I’ve focused on reframing potentially negative situations and flipping scenarios around to find the good. As I explained in my post, how to create a vision board, I’ve also been visualizing and focusing solely on what I want in my life, rather than worrying about what could potentially go wrong.
These may seem like minor shifts in the grand scheme of things, but they’ve been game changers in how I approach and experience my everyday life. And what’s more, this practice has sparked an additional unexpected benefit: I’ve grown increasingly grateful for all the good that surrounds me.
Enter the gratitude journal
In order to fuel these feelings of positivity, I decided to start a gratitude journal about a month ago. I’ve always tried to be mindful about acknowledging the things for which I’m thankful, but this shift in practice to physically recording my gratitude can’t even compare. The positive impact it has had on my outlook is remarkable.
Let me explain.
People approach gratitude journals in several different ways, but at its most basic, keeping a gratitude journal is simply a way of recording and reflecting upon the good things in your life.
What’s more, by using a gratitude journal with consistency, you start training yourself to see the good in all situations. You help your mind focus on the positive. This, in turn, gives you the strength to work through any challenges that come up along the way.
As I mentioned, there are many different ways to use a gratitude journal.
- Some people prefer writing in a notebook or journal.
- Others like typing on their computer.
- You might keep your entires short by simply recording three things for which you’re grateful each day.
- Alternatively, you might reflect upon an experience – big or small – and talk about why it was meaningful to you.
- Quotations and prompts are other great ways to inspire gratitude, which you can expand upon in your journal.
And remember, there is nothing too big or too small to record. The secret is feeling gratitude for everything that brings us joy.
Did you lift your heaviest weight at the gym this morning? Write that down!
Did you make a great sale at work? Fantastic; write about it!
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Benefits of a Gratitude Journal
Now, the practice of journaling may not come naturally at first. It might be hard to remember to write each day, or you might struggle to find something to write about. That’s okay. Don’t get discouraged. There’s a reason it’s called practicing gratitude.
The more you do it, however, the easier it gets. And before you know it, you’ll be feeling the benefits:
- You will likely increase your awareness of all the wonderful things that happen to you every single day.
- You have the opportunity to learn more about yourself, and what’s important to you.
- Practicing gratitude can help lower your stress by helping you focus on the good.
- You may sleep easier by making gratitude journaling part of your bedtime routine.
- By focusing on the good, you put yourself in a better headspace and raise your frequency. This radiates to everyone around you. Not only will you feel good, but you’ll also bring others up along the way.
As Jessica Estrada so succinctly puts it, “[k]eeping a gratitude journal is a super tool for transforming your life, expanding your sense of wellbeing, increasing happiness and fulfillment, undoing negative thought patterns, and shifting your mind to focus on the good.”
I don’t know about you, but that sounds pretty good to me.
Now, if you want to start a gratitude journal, but you feel stuck about what to write, consider the seven journal prompts below. Choose one or two that speak to you, and write about them. You can use the same prompts repeatedly, or you can try a new one every day this week. The choice is up to you!
1. I am grateful for three things that I hear right now because:
2. I am grateful for my friend [blank] because:
3. I am grateful for these three character traits because:
4. I am grateful for laughing about [blank] today because:
5. I am grateful for these three simple pleasures because:
6. I am grateful for this morning because:
7. I am grateful for this tradition because:
Now that you know how to start a gratitude journal, are you ready to begin? Great!
Grab a pen, a notebook, and then download my list of 31 gratitude prompts – one for every day of the month – and start seeing the positive changes today!
How do you practice gratitude? Do you use a gratitude journal? What are you grateful for today? Let me know below!