Where you might see random splotches of color on my hand, I see a promise of new dreams filled with hope and opportunity.
Let’s talk about dreams today.
Why You Should Dream Big And Reach For Your Goals
We all have dreams. We all have those incredible visions of an ideal life that warm our heart and make us glow from the inside out.
For some of us, those big dreams are what fuel our energy each day.
They’re what pull us out of bed a few hours earlier than necessary so we can start making those dreams a reality.
For others of us, however, we tend to shove those dreams out of the picture. They sit just outside our tunnel vision waiting patiently for us to pursue them.
And while we know those dreams are there, we nevertheless remind ourselves to “be realistic” and “get our head out of the clouds.”
But why?
Why do we do this? Why do we settle for mediocre when the thing that truly lights us up inside is right there for the taking?
Most of the time, the answer is fear.
Feeling Fear
Oftentimes we don’t dream big because we are worried about what people will think, and we’re even more afraid of what they’ll say.
We’re scared of failing and of not doing everything “perfect.”
We are afraid of disappointing others and ourselves.
I hear you.
In fact, I’ve been there. I was there for 10 years. And I still battle with these negative thoughts more often than I’d like to admit.
But today I’m here to remind you to shift that mindset.
As Elizabeth Gilbert tells us, it’s time to put fear in the backseat of the car and take control of the steering wheel once again.
It’s time to put fear in the backseat of the car and take control of the steering wheel once again. #igotthis #dreambig #motivationmonday Click To TweetStart pursuing those things that bring you joy, and do it with your full heart. Tell the doubters (and there will be doubters) that while you appreciate their concern, you got this. They can join fear in the backseat.
Because today you’re finally digging deep, you’re listening to your heart, and you’re ready to make those dreams a reality.
You got this, lady. I believe in you.
Question:
What are your big dreams? What are the things that light you up inside? How do you silence those negative voices and focus on the now? Let me know below!
danielle says
August 17, 2018 at 6:45 amEveryone needs that push. It’s the going out of our comfort zone that makes it hard. Thanks for the extra motivation this morning.
danielle
Paula says
August 18, 2018 at 4:58 pmAbsolutely, Danielle 🙂
Rachel says
August 17, 2018 at 6:25 amThis is exactly the motivation I needed this morning. I have my biggest contract ever coming up and I’m SO nervous and excited to step out of my comfort zone!
Paula says
August 18, 2018 at 4:59 pmOh my gosh, SO EXCITING Rachel! You got this! 🙌
Tara says
August 16, 2018 at 12:16 pmgreat encouragement! Thanks for sharing
Paula says
August 18, 2018 at 4:59 pmAbsolutely, Tara!
jadoreledecor says
August 16, 2018 at 11:43 amI’m all for reaching out for your goals. The key for me is making those dreams/hopes/goals attainable.
Paula says
August 18, 2018 at 5:00 pmYes! That is such an important reminder 🙂
Theresa | Bridesmaids Confession says
July 19, 2018 at 7:02 pmYou only have so many hours in the day so make them count! Do the things that lead you to your dreams.
Paula says
July 20, 2018 at 7:20 amYes! 100%, Theresa 🙌
Raina says
July 19, 2018 at 12:19 pmInspiring post! Thanks for the reminder to keep going for those big dreams! I’m working towards a coaching certificate this year!
Paula says
July 19, 2018 at 6:05 pmThat’s incredible and so inspiring, Raina! Congratulations on working toward that huge accomplishment 🙂
Jenni says
July 19, 2018 at 8:53 amI love this! It’s exactly what I needed to hear this morning. This has been on my mind alot lately.
Paula says
July 19, 2018 at 6:05 pmThanks, Jenni! I’m glad it rang true to you 🙂
marymakeup says
July 19, 2018 at 8:26 amAs you know I’m working on myself and I have to say I’m much happier and everything looks different when you’re positive and you have the right mindset. Nothing is impossible and we can do everything! My motto is “work hard, dream big and never give up”. Have a lovely day x
Paula says
July 19, 2018 at 8:35 amThat is a perfect motto; I love it 💞 And I’m thrilled to hear that shifting to a positive mindset has helped you. That is incredible news!
Amanda says
July 18, 2018 at 12:50 pmI have received some discouraging emails lately so this was just the motivation that I needed. Watch out world!
Paula says
July 18, 2018 at 7:43 pmI’m sorry to hear that, Amanda. Negative emails are never fun. But keep pushing through; you got this! 🙌
Jen says
July 17, 2018 at 2:46 pmI needed this today. Thank you! I love how you break things down and make it relatable!
Paula says
July 17, 2018 at 4:46 pmThanks, Jen. I’m glad it resonated <3
Ashley R. says
July 17, 2018 at 11:35 amI honestly thought about blogging for YEARS before I actually started. Fear is such a crazy thing. I’ve decided to let go and do everything I want to do!
Paula says
July 17, 2018 at 4:49 pmYES! It’s amazing how much power fear has over us, isn’t it? I’m so glad that you decided to dive in 🙂
ashleysolbergblog says
July 17, 2018 at 7:53 amYesssss!!! So many halt their dreams out of failure or what others will think. I’ve learned in the last few years, life is so short and you just have to try!
Paula says
July 17, 2018 at 4:47 pmYes! Such an important message, Ashley 🙂 You never know until you try!
Angela Amores says
July 16, 2018 at 11:04 pmIt’s definitely a hard choice to take a risk on ourselves but so worth it. Loved reading this!!
Paula says
July 17, 2018 at 7:52 amTHanks Angela 🙂
RACHEL says
July 16, 2018 at 5:53 pmI really do need to shift my mindset. Sometimes I get so stuck on hearing “no” that I don’t give anyone the chance to say yes!
Paula says
July 17, 2018 at 7:53 amIt’s so easy to do, isn’t it? It’s amazing what a big change that shift in mindset makes, though 🙂