I have 800+ unread newsletters in my inbox. I’m overwhelmed by email.
And yes, I subscribed to almost every single newsletter on purpose.

If your email feels like a digital avalanche you can’t dig out of — you are not alone.
Here’s the thing: for many of us with ADHD (or let’s be honest, even without it), inbox overwhelm isn’t just annoying — it’s emotionally draining. It’s open loops. It’s guilt. It’s “I should be reading this,” even when we don’t have the time or bandwidth.
That’s why I’m sharing my current experiment — not a polished system I’ve mastered, but a real-time practice I’m testing to deal with inbox overload.
It’s ADHD-friendly. It’s sustainable. And so far? It’s working.
Listen to the episode above or stream it on your favorite podcasting app. Prefer to read? No problem! Keep scrolling for a summary of key takeaways.
In Episode 345 we’re exploring:
- Why we struggle to unsubscribe
- My “6-Month Rule” for deciding what stays and what goes.
- The specific Bookmark Trick to support your working memory so you can confidently unsubscribe
- How changing your physical environment can lower the friction of reading.
Why Newsletter Overwhelm Is Getting Worse
I’ve been thinking about why so many of us are drowning in email subscriptions right now.
I have a few theories about the recent influx of newsletters filling our inboxes:
The shift from social media to deeper connection.
Many of us are seeking more real connection and in-depth content than a passing TikTok can provide. Newsletters offer that space to dig into an idea, landing directly in our inbox with the kind of thoughtful content we crave.
The AI content explosion.
With the massive influx of AI-generated content everywhere, there’s so much more noise to sift through. Finding genuine, heart-filled messages from real humans has become harder, making quality newsletters even more valuable—and making us even more hesitant to unsubscribe.
Substack’s success (and limitations).
Substack has created an incredible platform for writers, but here’s my personal qualm: the lack of email frequency control. It’s either all the emails or no emails. There’s no option for a weekly roundup or weekend-only delivery. No nuance. So even when I love a creator’s work, the daily emails can quickly become overwhelming.
The Real Problem: When Your Inbox Becomes a Newsletter Graveyard
All of this has turned my inbox into a field of visual and digital clutter. Even though I’ve funneled newsletters into separate email folders to keep them out of my main inbox, they’re just sitting there like open loops, weighing on me.
And I don’t like that.
I don’t want to leave them there to rot in this newsletter graveyard. I actually want to read the things coming in.
The “Archive All” Temptation
Sure, I could do a massive “archive all” and start fresh. That’s the easy solution. But I know I’m already not keeping up with my email subscriptions, so this system is clearly unsustainable. If I don’t want a rinse-and-repeat of the same inbox overwhelm, I need to try something different.
My Current Experiment for Managing Newsletter Overwhelm
What I initially decided sounds simple (but stick with me): unsubscribe from what I’m not reading, then set aside intentional time each week to read the newsletters I genuinely want to keep.
Whatever I don’t read within that designated time, I can either save for the next reading session or archive and start fresh.
Sounds straightforward, right?
The Hidden Challenge: Why Unsubscribing Feels Impossible with ADHD
But here’s what happened when I actually started the unsubscribe process. I got stuck. Because scarcity snuck in.
The ADHD “what-if” spiral started:
- What if I miss something important?
- What if I forget this creator exists when I unsubscribe?
- What if I need this information someday?
And from an ADHD perspective, these fears make complete sense. Our ADHD brains are driven by curiosity and the love of learning something new. We don’t want to miss out on potentially fun and novel ideas.
My toddler brain—my immediate gratification brain—always thinks: more is more. Not “less is more.” More! I always want more ideas and fascinating things to explore.
Plus, there’s that genuine working memory concern. If I unsubscribe and don’t have that visual reminder in my inbox anymore, will I forget that this helpful resource even exists?
The overwhelm builds as we try to make decisions about what to keep and what to let go.
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The Solution: Supporting Your Working Memory While Unsubscribing
Here’s the simple solution I came up with for managing newsletter overwhelm without the FOMO.
When my fear brain was worried about unsubscribing and scared I might forget about a helpful resource, I paused and got honest with myself:
“Okay, I know this is great content. But have you read ANY of their emails in the last 6 months?”
If the answer was no, I:
- Clicked through to their website from their most recent email
- Bookmarked that site under a new bookmark folder called “Favorite Creators”
- Then unsubscribed
That’s it. That was my entire email organization solution.
Why This Newsletter Management Strategy Works
This simple bookmark system has been exactly the support my working memory needed to let go and unsubscribe. Because now I know:
- I won’t forget about this incredible resource
- I can always check my “Favorite Creators” bookmarks
- I can resubscribe anytime I want
This approach has created a powerful shift in how I manage email subscriptions. I’m keeping the newsletters I’m currently reading—the ones really useful for this season of life—and making time in my schedule for them.
For creators whose work I still appreciate but don’t have space for right now, I’ve bookmarked their website or Substack, knowing I can always come back when the timing is better.
Creating a Sustainable Newsletter Reading System
The other piece of managing newsletter overwhelm is actually setting aside time to read what you’re keeping.
I’m big on clarifying your time budget and how much time you want to allocate to different areas of your life. So I chose a specific amount of time for newsletter reading.
What I don’t get to in that time, I can either:
- Archive and start fresh next session
- Save for my next reading sprint
Having this container of time eliminates the pressure of thinking “ugh, I need to make time for that!” or “I’ve been meaning to read that!” Instead, I know when I’ll get to it because I’ve scheduled it as an activity I genuinely want to do.
Optimize Your Reading Environment
When I set my designated newsletter reading time, I also decide on the environment. I personally prefer reading on either my computer in full-screen mode or on my iPad. I really hate reading on my phone.
When I create this intentional time, I’m also ensuring I’m reading in an environment that I actually enjoy. As we discussed in episode 304 about creating an ideal work environment, these details matter for ADHD brains.
Try This Newsletter Overwhelm Experiment Yourself
Ready to tackle your own inbox overwhelm? Here’s the step-by-step process:
Step 1: Create Your System
Create a “Favorite Creators” bookmark folder in your browser to save helpful resources you don’t want to forget about.
Step 2: Audit Your Subscriptions
Go through your newsletters and ask yourself: “Have I read ANY emails from this creator in the last 6 months?”
Step 3: Make Strategic Decisions
If the answer is no: Click through to their website from their most recent email, bookmark it in your “Favorite Creators” folder, then unsubscribe.
If the answer is yes: Keep the subscription and add it to your reading list.
Step 4: Schedule Reading Time
Set dedicated reading time by deciding how much time fits your schedule. As always, schedule according to your preferred level of structure.
Step 5: Choose Your Environment
Pick your ideal reading environment—computer, iPad, phone, or print. Choose what you actually enjoy.
Step 6: Let Go of What You Don’t Read
During your reading time: Read what you can, then either archive what you didn’t get to or save it for next time. No guilt.
Remember: You can always resubscribe later. This is about creating a sustainable email management system that works for your ADHD brain right now.
Managing Newsletter Overwhelm: Final Thoughts
That’s where I’m at with this newsletter management experiment. I don’t know how many of you are navigating similar inbox overwhelm. If you are, I’d genuinely love to hear about it—leave a comment or send me a message.
And if you have other strategies you use to manage your email subscriptions and newsletter overwhelm, please share them. I sure miss the days of RSS feeds and blogs (yes, I’m dating myself). But seriously, I love hearing what’s working for all of you.
The key to overcoming newsletter overwhelm isn’t perfection—it’s finding an ADHD-friendly system that reduces decision fatigue, supports your working memory, and gives you permission to let go without guilt.
Related Resources:
- Episode 237: 12 ADHD Email Management Tips
- Episode 236: How To Categorize Emails and Manage Your Inbox to Reduce Stress
- Take the Overwhelm Quiz
- Listen to Episode 345 on Apple Podcasts
- Listen to Episode 345 on Spotify
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About Paula Engebretson
ADHD COACH | PODCASTER
I spent the first 31 years of my life thinking I just needed to “try harder” while dealing with crushing self-doubt, perfectionism, and imposter syndrome. Then I was diagnosed with ADHD.
Finally understanding the missing puzzle piece, I discovered how to work with my brain, build upon my strengths, and take back control of my life.
Now I help others with ADHD do the same. Learn more.
